One of the most pressing questions about the seduction I receive from my clients and peers is: How can I meet a pleasant man without losing face? What should I say when I meet her and how can I persuade her to tell me her deed…” questions. That sounds like part of what keeps a lot of men up at night. Terrified of the prospect of meeting a woman and seducing her as if it’s a no-holds-barred wrestling match with a nine-foot-tall one-eyed giant in a steel cage.
Ironically, we tend to forget that women are human. Regardless of their exterior beauty, women, like any member of society, have feelings and emotions and go through the same ordeal as anyone.
What sadness when the most beautiful girls that God has placed on planet Earth must go without the affections of a loving boyfriend just because every man thinks shshe’seen abducted, or “i” it impossible for her to bread, pretty chics are subjected to lewd advances from jerks. Half drunks .who have more courage to approach them than the perfect guy has the guts to master the courage, let alone the thought!
In todtoday’sfant totoday’sich information and attention lack environment, speed is a top priority. it’s eveeveryone’sbunny and in a super big rush to copulation with as many partners as possible as soon as possible. However, considering the perspective that men are afraid of approaching rather chic, copulation. only a frame of mind, not a physical endeavor!
That being said, how does one even begin to attract pretty women like a junkie is attracted to crystal meth?
You see, seduction is not an event; it’s a process.
Let me clarify; itit’sike riding a bike or learning to play a musical instrument.
Seduction and attraction are a fine art that one must learn until they become a master.
When a master is at work, one cannot but stop to marvel at the sheer genius of it all.
When Tiger Woods or Roger Federer execute Grand Slams in their respective sports or, as you would have it, Vanessa Mae strums her Stradivarius; there is no accident to the reward and, as flawless as they both make it look, ththere’seen sweat and tears that went into making them Masters in their field.
I started dating at a very early age, 16 to be exact, and, by the time I was 20, I had lost count of the number of older women I’I’deen with.
Unlike most seduction gurus who spent most of their 20s dateless and in front of the tv screen scratching their heads wondering how to date fine women, I had already progressed into other areas of interest beyond dating in my 20s.
I am not saying this to brag or anything to that effect. Still, it pains me to see so much information flying about the internet on seduction and how to become a master simply by reading a book when your mimindset’sot right!
Suppose your mindset is that of failure due to past experiences with women, self-esteem, or other childhood misfortune that kids are always too eager to meet on another in the name of play or teasing. In that case, no amount of reading will redeem you from the curse of failure.
I say this not as ridicule but as a way to show you that, despite all your shortcomings, there’s a way to get rid of that excess baggage and begin a new journey into the unchartered waters of dating!
For instance, and this is more the norm than the exception if you come from a broken home and all you know is ridicule and pain if all you know is a failure; never a word of encouragement, then chances are; each time you meet someone you have an emotional affinity to, your past experiences come home to roost
full circle, and you exhibit those characteristics playing in your life all over again… iit’slike a rat on a wheel…the story keeps playing in your life ad infinitum.
Let me explain:
Sales professionals World-over attend sales seminars and coaching classes when they hit slumps. IIt’sbecause they realize that to be masters in their professions, they need to horn their skills and break self-imposed barriers that were not there in the first place.
When your mind is clear of emotional baggage and phobias, you have no barriers to break through; you only have the opportunity to fulfilIt’st’s like when you receive an unexpected bonus check or a well-deserved pay increase.
Your gait changes the instant you see that check stub or bank balance.
When you walk into your local grocery store or supermarket… you ycouldn’tn’t care less what the World is thinking because in that instayou’veu’ve attained God-consciousness.
Even if you’ve never approached a pretty lady before, chances are, you could come to anyone and make a fool of yourself a hundred times over…
Because your confidence levels are at an all-time high; because you’ve suspended all your limiting beliefs, for the moment anyway, through your self-worth!
Ahh, the magic word; Self Worth!
Now, consider this flip side:
Ever been to a zoo and watched lions in captivity?